Perseverance: Motivation for the World, One Person at a Time

Perseverance… an excerpt from the soon to be released book:

Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time by Gary A. McAbee

Perseverance

Perseverance is one of those nebulous terms that mean different things for different people. The true definition is to go on in spite of opposition. Opposition can also mean delay: your dreams, vision, and goals are all being delayed, so how long will you persevere? I firmly believe that people misunderstand perseverance because they do not properly associate as something associated with timing. The most common theme that runs with the concept of perseverance is knowledge of when to give up versus understanding of when to hang in there. I guess we can say it is an awareness of what you consider your pain threshold. How much discouragement, opposition, and delay can you take mentally and physically? Simply put, only you know when enough is enough, except when you don’t know when enough is enough!

Boxers step into a ring with supreme confidence until they get hit. Then, they realize they are in a fight! If they are losing the fight, they know they have to do something to make a comeback, or at least hang in there until they can recover. But what happens when the hits keep coming? At some point, the question of perseverance shows up in one way or another. Can they achieve their victory when it seems so far away? Put yourself in this position. I am sure your thoughts would be about survival, fighting back, or accepting defeat. Only you know where you are in that thought-process as the hits keep coming. Sure, you think you would make the right decision, but how many times have we seen boxers knocked silly because they hung in there too long?

Perseverance is a learned behavior that you must quantify. In other words, we need to put some form of time-limit on our ability to persevere. This has nothing to do with actual time. Going back t the boxing analogy, our boxer friend does not say he will last until 2:32 of round 8. Instead, he might say I can only hold out for a few more hits provided I cannot make a comeback. He can’t put a specific time on giving up, because things may change. He might be able to land a punch and change the fight in an instant. By the way, so can you! Just when you think you can no longer persevere, it happens! You are back on your feet and your come back and road to victory has begun.

This is a direct result of you knowing when enough is enough, except when you don’t know. I cannot (and should not) tell you if and when to give-in because I do not know you! You are a complex being who possesses a unique set of talents and abilities. Your levels of perseverance are different than mine, regardless of the situation, current status, or our stations in life. Again, this is one of those simple concepts when you read it, yet it can be so challenging to put into practice in our daily routines. We must be able to create some universal guidelines for perseverance that could potentially lead to success.

I will let you in on a secret; I put something here on your road to success. This book was laid out with perseverance purposely placed in this spot. The reason for this is the ease in which people tend to give up. It is easier to give up instead of going forward, especially if going forward requires enduring some form of distress. This is why you must define your success by starting with your eventual victory in mind. From there, build faith, start to dream and develop your vision. The objective is to be so thoroughly invested in the previous steps, that perseverance will be easier and maybe even unnecessary. I cannot tell you when to persevere or how long to persevere. I can only tell you to follow the process in the midst of opposition as you build your definition of success!

 

Affirmation: I persevere so that I can overcome all challenges on the way to becoming more successful each day.

 

 

 

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Chapter 13: Risk: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 12: Knowledge: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 11: Character: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 10: Courage: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 9: Fear: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 8: Motivation: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 7: Goal: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 6: Passion: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 5: Vision: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 4: Dream: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 3: If: Motivation for the World, One Word at a Time

Chapter 2: Faith: Motivation for the World, One Word At a Time

Chapter 1: Victory: Motivation for the World, One Word At a Time

 

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All that Glitters is not Gold!

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Years ago I was on vacation at an island country that has a magnificent port, beautiful beaches, and sparkling resort areas. The areas were well-kept and the local people were very friendly. Because of these things, the country is visited by thousands of Americans every year. To visitors, this country appears to be a tropical paradise. However, local citizens provide tours of other parts of the country not seen by tourists. If you take one of these inland tours you will notice that the scenery starts to change as soon as you leave the resort area. The neighborhoods are not as clean and the people are not as friendly. What happened to our tropical paradise?

This is an example of what happens when we think that outward appearance is everything. We become enamored with what we see. When we look a little closer we realize that what we see is not always the entire picture. We can be easily deceived by what we see. We can also be deceived by what we do not see. In other words, people tend to see tangible things first. Meanwhile the intangible things that go unnoticed probably present a more accurate picture of reality.

For example, how many times do we fall head over heels with someone of the opposite sex based solely on how they look? Tangible beauty is easy to see and hard to resist! Later on, as we get to know the other person, their intangible qualities are revealed and we realize that this person may not be the one for us. Sometimes even when our intuition kicks in and allows us to see this, we continue to go with the flow and stay in hot pursuit. Later on we realize that we found the temporary beauty of glitter instead of the permanence of solid gold.

Ask any treasure hunter: finding gold is a painstaking process that requires a lot of patience. It requires learning to spot the difference between the colored rocks called “fool’s gold” and the real, solid gold. How can we unearth the intangibles and find gold? The answer is simple: dig deep and inspect every rock carefully. As it relates to people and circumstances, we should ask one question, ask a second question, and then ask more questions! The answers to these questions will reveal whether or not the glitter we see will lead to the gold we seek.

It is alright to appreciate the glitter, but imperative to look deeper and inspect carefully to find the gold.

Remember, all that glitters is not gold!